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Your Three Feet of Influence
Buddhism, Compassion Guest Author Buddhism, Compassion Guest Author

Your Three Feet of Influence

Few people are powerful enough, persuasive, persistent, consistent, and charismatic enough to change the world all at once, but everyone has the ability to affect the three feet around them by behaving more ethically, honestly, and compassionately toward those they meet

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Warm Data
Buddhism Guest Author Buddhism Guest Author

Warm Data

Recognizing that complex problems are not susceptible to predetermined solutions, the International Bateson Institute has taken up the task of generating a category of information specifically dedicated to description of contextual relational interaction, calling it “Warm Data”.

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Seeking Refuge
Buddhism, Precepts, Meditation, Mindfulness Guest Author Buddhism, Precepts, Meditation, Mindfulness Guest Author

Seeking Refuge

I drove down Lake Street in our worn, twelve-year old mini-van. Hot fury heaved in my chest and shoulders and transformed into a high-pitched scream that poured out of my throat for two whole blocks. I screamed until I had no more energy. I screamed until my voice was hoarse. Had I been a superhero, Wonder Woman say, the scream would have been a siren shattering every van window. But I was just a regular woman, terrified and furious and grieving, trying not to speed or do something reckless as I drove.

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Normalize Discomfort
Meditation, Zen, Buddhism, Mindfulness Robert Althouse Meditation, Zen, Buddhism, Mindfulness Robert Althouse

Normalize Discomfort

So when things arise in your practice and your meditation that disturb you, you may easily get discouraged. This isn't what you signed on for. So I want to suggest that you normalize discomfort; that you proceed by allowing and acknowledging that suffering is part of your life and to walk on a spiritual path means to engage and transform this suffering, but not to avoid it.

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Give No Fear
Zen, Compassion, Buddhism, Psychology Robert Althouse Zen, Compassion, Buddhism, Psychology Robert Althouse

Give No Fear

You have to be very honest with yourself. You have to be willing to really look at your own confusion. Meditation can help you be with your fear. Meditation helps you be in sync with your body, mind and heart. This grounded, embodied awareness shines a light on the dark corners of fear.

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The Power of Forgiveness
Zen, Buddhism, Psychology Robert Althouse Zen, Buddhism, Psychology Robert Althouse

The Power of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is connected to the Buddhist virtue of equanimity, a steadiness of mind that is the ground for wisdom and the protector of compassion. Forgiveness is related to the third Paramita of patience that helps us work with our own aggression and irritations. For when anger visits us and stays too long, it takes up residence in our heart as resentment.

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